Speak it Into Existence

The first time we meet God in the Scriptures, he’s doing a curious thing – he uses his words to create. He speaks and creates something out of nothing. Theologians have a term for this. Because to be a good theologian you have to have terms for everything. They call it creatio ex nihilo…creating something out of nothing.

What’s fascinating is not just that God creates something out of nothing, but the way he chooses to do that. He speaks creation into existence.

Words can be powerful.

A friend of mine taught me that when you lead a group of people, you don’t chide them, telling them what you want them to be. You speak as if they are already that thing, and what will happen is that over time they will grow into becoming what you have said they already are.

Today, I was sharing with some people something that I believe and want to live out. I was sharing with them the tension and struggle of believing it to be true, but how hard it is to actually live it, which seems to be true of just about anything that is good and worth pursuing. What I told them was I’m going to keep talking as if I’m there – not as a disingenuous facade – but instead to speak it into existence in my life.

It’s not a power of positive thinking sort of thing. It’s not “The Secret”, or some other kind of self-help voodoo. It’s the way the creator of the universe brought the universe into existence. He spoke what wasn’t there into being there.

Too often, whether it’s when we lead a group, or if it’s with our family, or in the self-image that we have of ourselves, what we do is focus on what we’re not or on how to motivate or push us to be what we want to be. We try to use our words to force something to happen, instead of speaking as if it’s already true. You speak it into existence by speaking as if that thing is already true and then allowing it to grow into becoming true.

Maybe you can’t create something out of nothing. But your words can still create.

14 Verses

I was reading in the Gospels recently and was struck by something…when Jesus is headed back to his home town, people love him. Luke says that as he was teaching in their synagogues, people praised him (4:15). They’re excited about him, what he’s doing, and what he’s saying.

But then, it’s just 14 verses later that the people of the synagogue are upset with him. And not just a little upset. Upset enough that they want to throw him off the cliff.

In 14 verses he goes from being praised to people wanting to kill him.

People are fickle.

And for those that are in any kind of leadership, the temptation is to let those highs and lows drive you. The temptation is to feel significant and important when you’re getting all the praise, but when people are angry to all of a sudden let that drive your leadership.

The problem is that people are fickle. It only takes 14 verses for them to turn in a completely different direction.

Don’t let your leadership be determined by the praise, or by the angry mob. Don’t let that drive you and your decisions. Be who God is calling you to be. Do the things God is calling you to do. Say the things God is calling you to say. And recognize that sometimes people will praise you when you do that and sometimes they will turn on you. But don’t worry…it only takes 14 verses for it to change in the other direction.

Movements don’t emerge because everyone suddenly decides to face the same direction at once. They rely on social patterns at begin as the habits of friendship, grow through the habits of communities, and are sustained by new habits that change participants’ sense of self.
~ Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit

A Christmas Reflection For This Week

“Do not be afraid”

This statement by an angel shows up several times in the Christmas story. It’s said to Zechariah as the birth of John is announced. The same is said to Mary as she is told of her pregnancy. Then the angels say it to the Shepherds as they first hear about of the birth of Jesus.

“Do not be afraid.”

I wonder if a part of the reason the angels would begin a significant announcement with those words was so that what they had to say could actually be heard.

In those kinds of moments, it would be easy to let your fear override the words that you’re hearing. It would be easy for your mind to be somewhere else, thinking about something else, all the while, the angels are giving you incredibly significant news that you’re going to have an opportunity to respond to. In order to not miss what was going to happen in that moment, the angel would say,

“Do not be afraid.”

Because fear would take them out of that moment. Fear would keep Mary from pondering and treasuring these things. Fear would keep the shepherds away from the manger. They are told to not be afraid, because fear would distract them from what God was doing in that moment and in that place.

Maybe if those same angels came to us today, instead of saying “do not be afraid,” maybe they would instead say something like, “put down your phone” or “don’t add something else to your to-do list” or “stop your incessant worrying for a moment”. I wonder if the statements we would hear would be the things that keep us from being fully present in the moment.

What if during this season, God is wanting to say something to you, but we have become so preoccupied that we aren’t able to hear it. Maybe this week, in preparation for Christmas, you could take some time to put your list away, turn your phone off, and allow yourself to not worry about all that has to be done. Maybe you take a slow, meandering walk with your family. How about you get a fire going and make coffee and hot chocolate and just hang out. Or perhaps you turn off the TV one evening and instead read the story of the first Christmas – it’s only a few chapters – Matthew 1 & 2 and Luke 1 & 2.

I’m reminded of the words of the Psalmist who said, “Today if only you would hear his voice.” Today. Not tomorrow. Not sometime when things slow down. Today.

Could it be that one of the reasons the angels would begin their declarations that we read every year at Christmas with the statement, “Do not be afraid,” was as a way of saying, “Be fully present so that you can hear what God wants to say to you and experience what God is about to do”.

This week, as you prepare for Christmas, don’t forget to slow down and be present so you can hear what God wants to say and experience what God is about to do.

Bold as Love This Weekend at Parkcrest

I first heard about Bob Roberts several years ago when Roger Beard, the former Lead Pastor at Parkcrest, was at an event he spoke at. Roger came back talking about this crazy guy, Bob, who was incredibly challenging and was causing him to think differently about missions.

So, I began reading Bob’s books, where his influence began to affect the way we engaged in missions at Parkcrest, and also began to spur on a passion and strategy for us becoming a church planting church.

A little over a year ago, I began getting to know Bob, and each time I’m with him, I’ve been regularly inspired, remembering why I’m in ministry and challenged at how I engage in my neighborhood and world. Bob has this unique ability to build relationships  and speak with world leaders, people of multiple faiths, and just about anyone he meets, all the while never giving up what he believes to be true and core. As a result of that, he gets invited to speak around the world at things most evangelical Christians never get invited to – like the World Islamic Forum. 

That’s why I’m so excited to have him come to Parkcrest this weekend to speak at all of our Weekend Worship Services at the Heartwell Campus. Bob is going to speak on the subject of his new book, Bold as Love. And while his book won’t release for another month, you will be inspired and challenged at what it looks like to live your faith out boldly and lovingly in relationships with people of multiple faiths.

Hope to see you there!

Take a Step Towards Investing in Intentional Community

This weekend at Parkcrest, we talked about investing in intentional community, and how we can often be the biggest barrier to experiencing community. I gave three questions that I'm asking myself, that we can also ask this week to help us move towards experiencing community.

  1. What am I already doing that I can invite someone else to do with me?
  2. Where do I need help that I can ask for help?
  3. What's something uncomfortable for me to share that I need to share?

What if you answered just one of those questions this week to help take a step towards investing in intentional community

 

Thinking About Politics: Resources

Several times at Parkcrest, I’ve teased it that we’re going to spend a couple of weeks preaching on politics towards the end of October, at the height of the political season. Every time I bring it up, I’m shocked by the response and the discussions I end up having with people in the hallways and during the week. I get the sense that we’re really looking for some way to have some kind of thoughtful dialogue about this, and to honestly wrestle through what it looks like when the Kingdom of God and politics collide. 

For those of you that are intrigued by this, I thought I’d point you towards a few resources since we won’t be talking about this for another month. These are books that I’ve found helpful in thinking about this discussion. A few disclaimers first: As with any book, I don’t agree with everything the authors write, but I did find each of these thought-provoking; Also, a more robust theology needs to be developed outside of books specifically about politics, but these are only ones that approach things from that framework. 

Descriptions for each of these books can be found on Amazon. If you end up reading one, I’d love to hear your thoughts…

The Myth of a Christian Nation by Greg Boyd

Jesus for President by Shane Claiborne

Blinded by Might by Cal Thomas and Ed Dobson

The Politics of Jesus by John Howard Yoder

And finally, when you’ve got a spare hour :), you may enjoy watching this discussion between Chuck Colson, Greg Boyd and Shane Claiborne on how evangelicals engage politics. It’s a great, respectful dialogue, between differing views…

Three Degrees of Separation from On Being on Vimeo.

12 Years Ago

12 years ago as a wide-eyed, naive, optimistic kid, I stood next to Allison Otey and said, “I do”

12 years ago, I had no idea of the gravity of what we were committing to…

…the pain we would walk through together and the incredible experiences we would share

…the children we hadn’t even began imagining yet and the way they would forever alter our lives

…the adventures that we would share

…the hard decisions we would make

…the times we would laugh, and even cry

…the way we would come to know the other so well

…what was going to change about each of us and what would be the same

…how pursing Jesus together would look in each of the seasons of our lives

I had no idea

I was just this kid, who pursued this girl, and had no idea what was in store for us, but knew it was supposed to be with her. Marriage is the biggest risk that you will take, but it has the potential for the greatest rewards. 12 years ago, I had no idea what all I was stepping into, but I knew who I wanted to step into it with. 

Mike and Allison Goldsworthy Wedding from Mike Goldsworthy on Vimeo.

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